Thursday, January 28, 2010

Perspective

Yesterday was my Uncle Reid's funeral. He was a great man who has left behind a great legacy. He died at the young age of 79. I was able to attend the funeral and have thought and talked a lot about it since. I was happy to see extended family and also most of our immediate family. I have decided that is is actually a great experience to attend funerals. As I walked through the viewing line, talked to my sweet aunt who just lost her husband, and then sat by my self saving seats for my family, I had some time to think. I sat with my sweet 6 month old niece Megan next to me and was mostly alone in the chapel. I thought about how this sweet young baby was just at the beginning of her life but after 55 years of marriage and a full life, Uncle Reid was now on the other side. He is now separated from his family until they meet again for eternity. I was amazed at what incredible things we get to experience in our lives; new beginnings as well as endings. He was spoken of with respect, love and admiration. He loved his family and they spoke of the things that were most important to him. I was impressed yet again about how important this life is and how wonderful it is that we have families we will be with forever! That's amazing! We will only be on this earth for a short time and its so important to keep perspective of what is most valuable to us. I am grateful I was able to go and be reminded of this little life lesson. I look forward to at least 55 years of marriage and hope I can fill my life with special treasures.

2 comments:

Kristen said...

I love this post! I am so sad I missed it. Easton is finally doing better. It has been a really bad winter for us!!!!

Andrew and Tracy said...

That is a great perspective. Thanks Katie! I'm sorry to hear your Uncle passed away, but i'm glad that you had a neat experience through it all. Hope all is well.